课 题： 异性交往­——关于恋爱                                                          

教 学 目 标： 1、了解爱的真谛                                                                                                                     

              2、学会协调青春期对异性萌动的心理状态                                                                

              3、了解与异性交往中合适的行为举止                                                         

教 学 方 法： 头脑风暴  情境模拟                                                       

教 学 过 程：                                                               

 一、引入：                                                                         

    1、一、欣赏关于“爱情”的歌曲。                                                                          

     几千年来，人们一直在歌颂爱情，书籍、音乐、舞蹈、节目、影片等各种媒介所记录描写花了最大笔墨的就是爱情。人们向往爱情，爱情是人类最伟大的感情，歌德曾说过：“哪个少男不钟情，哪个少女不怀春。”豆蔻年华的少年已开始在心中萌发出不可名状的感情，那这种感情是爱情吗？                                                                

2、头脑风暴：“爱情是什么？”(请每一个学生回答) 

 只不过是年轻时的那种懵懂感觉而已,过了那时期,一切都会觉得平淡了。...  爱情是一碗毒酒!人们喜欢饮鸠止渴!  爱是一种无私的付出,只要对方是开心快乐的,自己也是开心快乐满足的, 爱情就是能和我相依相伴,相知相怜的人共度一生                                                         

    爱情是朦胧的月色                                                               
　　挥洒在无尽的夜空中                                                             
　　我曾问花季之人                                                                 
　　一块橡皮 牵手人生                                                             
　　爱情是什么                                                               
　　爱情是花丛中的红玫瑰                                                         
　　芬芳诗意的清香                                                                  
　　我曾问雨季之人                                                                 
　　一滴眼泪 滋润人生                                                         
　　爱情是什么                                                                   
　　爱情是一生的追求                                                                    
　　不变的是坚毅的信念                                                       
　　我曾问而立之人                                                                 
　　一枚戒指 相随人生                                                            
　　爱情是什么                                                                   
　　爱情是避风的港湾                                                           
　　停靠情感的风帆                                                              
　　我曾问不获之人                                                               
　　一块手表 了白人生                                                             
　　爱情是什么                                                                       
　　爱情是生命注定的缘分                                                            
　　酸甜苦辣以注定                                                              
　　我曾问天命之人                                                             
　　一支香烟 写进人生                                                               
　　爱情是什么                                                                   
　　爱情是无色的水晶                                                              
　　纯洁与珍贵的化身                                                                 
　　我曾问花甲之人                                                                 
　　一杯美酒 笑语人生                                                              
　　爱情是什么                                                                   
　　爱情是如画的风景                                                              
　　山与水相诉沧桑的激情                                                           
　　我曾问古夕之人                                                                     
　　一皆白发 相扶人生                                                         
                                                                                     3、爱的真谛（爱与迷恋的区别）                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

      爱                                     迷恋                                 

 爱逐渐产生于两人之间，许多共同的     迷恋往往一见钟情，双方以为自己在恋爱                                                                   

经历使他们产生感情                    迷恋是建立在少数方面吸引的基础上                                                                                                                                     

 爱建立在了解基础上                   迷恋说：“爱无法解释”                                                 

 爱涉及到整个人格                     迷恋往往强迫对方满足自己的快感，安全感                                                    

 爱为对方着想期望保护对方，使对方快乐  和自私的满足感                                                                     

 爱是忠诚，宁静，安全，充满希望自信    迷恋不稳定，不忠诚，嫉妒害怕迷恋倾向                                                                                                                                                  

 爱倾向于产生在20岁左右或之后         产生在青春早期                                                               

    或许现在的那种萌动还不是爱情，但依然有着它美丽的一面，依然令人向往，可同时也会给人带来一些烦恼。                                                       

二、花季里的烦恼                                                                         

 1、情景模拟：如果我对某位男（女）生产生了好感，我觉得他特别帅。每天我的目光会一直追随着他，我能在人群中一眼就认出他来，到处打探他的信息。随着对他的了解，我发觉自己越来越喜欢他了。接下来怎么办？我要告诉他，这种心情吗？他会有怎样的反应呢？                                        

   是否表白(表决)                                                               

 不表白的应对方法：静思：冷静思考自己的感情。                                                                       

            躲避：尽量避免与自己爱恋的人单独相处，有条件的话可以能不见则不见。                                                           

            转移：多和自己的家人，同学，朋友交往，多参加各种活动。                                                                                                                                         

            倾诉：向自己可以信任的老师，家人诉说，得到关心。                                                               

 2、表白（模拟）                                                                            

   表白的方式？各有什么利弊

表白的目的是什么？为了让对方知道？还是为了开展一段恋情？                                                                             

   表白的结果——拒绝（应对方式同上）                                            

   表白的结果——接受（结果怎样）学生讨论可能产生的结果                                                                     

 3、假设有人喜欢你，你会怎么做？                                                                                                                                                     

    如果对方主动告白（是否）会接受？拒绝、置之不理                                                                                                                                                        

    拒绝的要点：真诚，尊重对方对你的感情，也尊重自己无法接受。                                                                                                                                               

    拒绝（模拟）